The black moment in romance

In what Joseph Campbell called the dark night of the soul, there is a moment in a hero's journey when everything seems lost. The character finally recognizes what needs to be done in their life and they resolve to take painful action.

This black moment is a lot more than a device for heightening emotions by making the reader sad before everything turns into a triumphant happy ending. It tests the entire premise of the story. In the case of a romance, it tests the strength of the love between the characters.

So how does it work? The black moment is a moment of crisis for a character, when all their efforts seem to have failed. In this moment, the character experiences what their life without the love they have striven for. It is strongest when the crisis is of their own doing and they cannot blame external circumstances for their predicament.

The character faces a stark choice—will they sacrifice everything else for love?

The choice is not easy (it is a BLACK moment) but in a happy-ever-after romance, the sacrifice they make leads to joy. Without making a sacrifice, the thesis is not proved. How can a reader be sure the character is genuinely in love if they have skipped to a happy ending without striving for it?

The main difference between a romance and other genres is that both characters have heroic arcs. Both characters need to face black moments, but it is best if the story does not have a double dip into depression, or it will not be a strong story. It is disconcerting to read one character overcoming doubts and then having to plow through the other character having doubts. Characters do not have identical romantic drives or need attention from each other in the same way, so if the romance is well-constructed, there will be one turning point which motivates each of them to change their lives and choose each other.

Hopefully I have managed this in my Aussie Guards series. See what you think!